So over the last few weeks I have been crazy with the baby bug! It’s crazy, because I never thought I would catch it. Being 29 years old and never feeling the pull towards children, I never thought I would develop maternal instincts. It is kind of exciting and scary all at the same time to feel the urge to be a mother. I have a lot of fear about being pregnant because I am afraid of what it could possibly do to my anxiety. I do not want my anxiety to be a raging beast while I would be pregnant. Also, considering some of my anxiousness is caused from the fear of being sick (very annoying) I think having morning sickness would really push my anxiety over the edge. I have been working on sorting through these fears and trying to rationalize them. I do not want to miss out on the opportunity of being a mother just because I am anxious about the process of having the child.
I would also be completely open to adopting a baby. As a teacher I see so many amazing kids being unloved at home and it breaks my heart I already feel as if I am a mother to all of them since I play multiple roles during the day to these kids. Teacher, mother, nurse, and counselor. I would love to give a child who desperately needs a stable home a spoiled upbringing. I believe every child should be spoiled π (but not to the point where they are bratty of course! Boundaries are healthy) The calling to adopt has really been heavy on myΒ heart.
I am not sure what path we will decide on, but I am looking forward to what God has in store for us. π
Whatever your decision is, it will be the right one. Either way, a child will have a very tender, caring, nurturing and loving mom. I can tell because you have a big heart and it shows in your blog. πΉ
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Aww thank you so much π that means a lot!!
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You’re welcome. There aren’t enough people in the world who are willing to open their hearts and homes to orphaned children, hell, even their own flesh and blood. That’s why there are so many children without families. It’s beautiful that you’re one of those few.
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Aww thank you π
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I completely understand. Although I’m only 20 being a mother is something I really want to do later in life but my anxiety getting worries in pregnancy terrifies me! I hope you find the right way for you π
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Thank you π I hope you do too!
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Be not afraid.. Fear sucks..
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It does!
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Having my baby was the best thing I ever did in my life. I too have bad anxiety, and oddly it was one of the calmest, most serene times I’ve had. I was 42 when I got pregnant, and almost 43 by the time I had my daughter. She’s now almost 15 years old, and I would have done it again and again had I been able. You will be a great mom, if and when you decide to do this. It’s about trusting yourself and willing to be wrong – A LOT! π –Audrey
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Thank you so much for your kind words
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I think the anxiety about anxiety is worse than the actual anxiety! If you want children you should have them, however they come.
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LOL oh gotta love anxiety over anxiety π
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